So you hooked up with a Penn State frat guy. Congrats! Or maybe not. The next steps are questionable— if there even are any. The frat man is a species that cannot be perfectly placed into one category. It is hard to hold ’em down, but it certainly is not hard to lose them. So, how do you lose a Penn State frat guy in ten days?
Show any interest at all
Don’t be clingy. They probably don’t even remember your name and may get you confused for a spam caller! Better to text your girlfriends than Mr. won’t text you back. Showing any sort of interest at all will make him run.
Ask him to be loyal
Remember, we are working with frat men here— not Disney princes. Frat men seem to be scared of the term “loyalty,” so don’t bring up any scary words unless you want to see them run.
Try to get him to skip a party to hang with you
Frat parties are their prime mating time. Like sharks looking for bait, they can’t miss the opportunity to scout out all the new fish in their waters. Maybe you will get a text after, if he couldn’t find anything better.
Diss on his frat
Frat is life. Brotherhood is forever, you aren’t.
“How many girls are you talking to”
That is confidential information. It can’t be spread to the general public. And realistically, you don’t want to know.
Make future plans
Chances are… there is no future! Hinting at any opportunity to see him again is a great way to watch him walk out the door and never turn back around.
Expect more than sex
A date??? That is a term frat guys have never heard. If you don’t want to have sex with him that’s fine. He will just call the next option on his roster. Don’t take it personally.
Ask to join the smoke circle
Bro’s before hoes. No, you cannot join the smoke circle. It’s boys night tonight and you aren’t invited. There might be girls joining later on, but don’t expect that girl to be you.
“I’ve never met someone like you”
He has definitely met someone like you. She may even be coming over once you walk out. It’s okay though, there are many just like him too.
Try to go through his phone
Bro’s before hoes. No you cannot join the smoke circle. It’s boys night tonight and you aren’t invited. There might be girls joining later on, but don’t expect that girl to be you.
Despite the stereotypical frat man chaos, there are some good ones in the mix. If you manage to find one, take him and run!
Have you lost a frat guy in 10 days? Let @VALLEYmag on X!
Related
The Exciting Lives of Fraternity DJs
College Dating Disasters
CAUGHT IN BETWEEN: THE SITUATIONSHIP-RELATIONSHIP DIVIDE
Thanks for your write-up. Another item is that just being a photographer requires not only trouble in taking award-winning photographs and also hardships in establishing the best camera suited to your needs and most especially problems in maintaining the quality of your camera. This really is very accurate and noticeable for those photography addicts that are in capturing the actual nature’s eye-catching scenes – the mountains, the forests, the actual wild or even the seas. Going to these amazing places unquestionably requires a digital camera that can meet the wild’s unpleasant surroundings.
Its like you read my mind! You seem to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you could do with a few pics to drive the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is wonderful blog. A great read. I will certainly be back.
I appreciate your wp design, wherever do you download it from?
Hiya, I am really glad I have found this info. Nowadays bloggers publish only about gossips and internet and this is actually frustrating. A good website with interesting content, that is what I need. Thanks for keeping this site, I’ll be visiting it. Do you do newsletters? Can not find it.
Yet another thing I would like to convey is that as opposed to trying to suit all your online degree courses on days of the week that you finish work (since the majority of people are fatigued when they come home), try to obtain most of your lessons on the saturdays and sundays and only 1 or 2 courses for weekdays, even if it means taking some time off your saturdays. This is really good because on the week-ends, you will be extra rested plus concentrated on school work. Thanks alot : ) for the different recommendations I have realized from your site.
Aw, this was a very nice post. In concept I would like to put in writing like this additionally ? taking time and precise effort to make an excellent article? however what can I say? I procrastinate alot and certainly not appear to get something done.
I have been absent for a while, but now I remember why I used to love this website. Thanks , I?ll try and check back more frequently. How frequently you update your website?
What i do not understood is actually how you’re not really much more well-liked than you may be right now. You are so intelligent. You realize thus significantly relating to this subject, made me personally consider it from so many varied angles. Its like women and men aren’t fascinated unless it is one thing to accomplish with Lady gaga! Your own stuffs outstanding. Always maintain it up!
What?s Happening i’m new to this, I stumbled upon this I’ve found It absolutely useful and it has helped me out loads. I hope to contribute & assist other users like its helped me. Great job.
You can certainly see your expertise in the paintings you write. The sector hopes for even more passionate writers such as you who aren’t afraid to mention how they believe. At all times go after your heart.