This Valentine’s Day, romance is going gothic, in the best way. With “Wuthering Heights” hitting theaters Friday, Feb. 13, the mood is shifting away from sickeningly sweet Valentine’s cliches and towards something darker, messier and far more passionate. Think big feelings, dramatic energy and a love that feels like it might ruin your life…but only just enough to make it unforgettable. If you’re looking for Valentine’s date ideas that sound like they could be straight out of the film, then this one’s for you.
Take the Long Way There
Start the date off with a scenic walk. The kind with no clear destination, just an invitation for easy conversations. Talk to them about nothing and everything. Classes, memories, things you miss. Let the thoughts you normally keep to yourself slip out, without overthinking them. Allow the pauses to stretch and the conversations to wander. There’s something romantic about walking side by side, moving slowly together in step, with no rush to be anywhere else.
Something Just a Little Secret
Instead of spending Valentine’s in a crowded restaurant, try something that feels more spontaneous and slightly secretive. The goal isn’t to impress them, it’s to create a moment that feels private and unexpected. Pack a simple picnic, find a quiet spot and let the evening unfold on its own. Let the conversation flow naturally instead of forcing it. Some of the best moments happen when nothing is planned and you simply get lost in each other’s presence.
Stay In, Set the Mood
If you want to spend the night in, commit to the atmosphere. Turn off the overhead lights and burn an almost absurd amount of candles. Skip the usual rom-com route, and choose something that leans into the mood and allows for tension to build. Write letters that you would otherwise never send to them. Try to sketch one another without breaking eye contact. Take turns reading stories out loud to the other. Follow whatever your impulse is, even if it feels awkward at first. Those quiet moments of intimacy are what linger long after the night is over.
However it is you choose to spend the night, whether it’s wandering aimlessly together, enjoying a private picnic or embracing an intimate night in, make the evening entirely yours. Also, don’t forget to head to the theaters Feb. 13, to see “Wuthering Heights” and let the film’s turbulent love story remind you why the best romances are never simple.
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