The percentage of men in the entire world is roughly 50.4% according to google analytics. Out of that 50.4% it is safe to say that 35% of those men worship Andrew Tate ideologies the way a plant worships water for survival.
But then in the crack of the darkness that is insecure masculinity, you might find a light of a decent man. Benny Blanco has come on social media sharing his emotional intelligence and take on relationships basically contradicting everything Tate has said.
For anyone who has not yet heard Blanco’s take on how to treat your partner, he essentially says everything a guy tells you the first week they meet you before they ghost you. However when those words aren’t coming out the mouth of a stoned frat boy they sound a little more genuine and convincing.
A “How-To-Be-A-Man” Crash Course
A lot of the answers to becoming in tune with your partner are found on the couch of the podcast that Benny and Selena Gomez go on to talk about how they persevere through the trials and tribulations of dating. For a couple who once got so much hate because of their appearances together, they now stole the hearts of fans hoping to find their Benny Blanco one day.
One of his biggest words of advice is “to be loved is to be seen.” He has learned Selena and what works for her like the back of his hand. Her favorite foods, her favorite TV shows, how to calm her down when she is anxious and how to make her feel like the only girl in the world.
Appearance is a superficial part of attraction that should not matter when a person isn’t afraid to love you loudly. Another thing Blanco has shared is that he has never been afraid to tell the entire world that he worships the ground Selena walks on. While Andrew Tate is warning men to not be wrapped around the finger of a woman, Benny is begging men to be.
It comes to show which one of the two men fall asleep with a good-hearted woman in their arms every night and which one is watching Family Guy in their multi-million dollar mansion alone.
So.. Why Are They Not Listening?
Everything Blanco says is spot on and the comments are devouring his content. Unfortunately though, it might only be falling on the suggested pages of women.
A lot of Benny and Selena’s episodes make you want to send them directly to the source with a note attached saying “you should listen to this.” That might be out of the comfort zone for some, so manifesting that the video lands on their for you page while they are occupied and can’t keep scrolling is the other option.
But sometimes even a step-by-step tutorial does not even work. Believe it or not Benny Blanco and Andrew Tate are the same age. Comes to show what both sides of the coin look like for men.
Word of advice, don’t put your guard down too quickly when you think you have met your Benny Blanco.. even those people are capable of evil.
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